The 2nd Year They Work You to Death

There is a saying in Law School that goes something like this: "The first year they scare you to death, the second year they work you to death, and the third year they bore you to death."

In the interest of agency, however, I would probably change the phrase to: "The first year you let the new experience/workload scare you to death, the second year you choose to work to death, and the third year you decide you just don't care anymore because you already have a job set up."

So really, you only have yourself to blame if the saying is true for you. I have to say that the first year was hard, but the most scared I got was actually before law school started. Once I got there, I realized it wasn't as bad as I had imagined (the perks of being a pessimist).

And then my second year rolls around and suddenly there are so many opportunities open to you: picking your own courses, participating in club leadership positions, membership in co-curriculars such as Law Review, Moot Court, and Trial Advocacy. You are allowed to work the second year, which means you can clerk, TA, or be a research assistant. At this point, you leave your section of friends that were in EVERY SINGLE ONE of your classes last year, and you all start blazing your own path.

It's rather intimidating, come to think of it. I mean, the classes and other opportunities you choose shape your resume which ultimately determines your future! You would think that I came to law school with a specific plan of what I wanted to do, but to be honest, I didn't. The law just offers so many options that it's really hard to choose. Think about it: every aspect of your life can in some way or other be related to law. Family, attending school, religious freedoms, work conditions, everything!

So I haven't really decided yet. I'm hoping more job experience and being exposed to more classes will help me figure it all out.

Rhetorically,
Rebekah

Dreams Do Come True...

In New Orleans! (And Disneyland)
Tips for a great trip to Vegas to Huntington Beach to Disneyland and back again:

I would highly recommend staying in the MGM Signature hotel. It was the best hotel we stayed in the whole trip. It has a great view, a kitchenette (they even wash your dishes for you!), and no casino.

Huntington Beach is a great option because of its proximity to Disneyland. I would recommend parking in town and walking to the beach. I would also recommend going to Ruby's cafe at the end of the pier. (We saw a real dolphin out the window! *Note: this was an extra, unadvertised, and unplanned perk of eating there- dolphins are not always guaranteed)

Disneyland. Always, always, always use this amazing little app. It saved us sooo much time in line, and we were able to go to all but 6 of the rides between both California Adventure and Disneyland!

For Korean Lovers: Wi Spa. Since Matt loves Korea (see past posts about Korean Valentine's Day) we went to a Korean spa. They have a co-ed area called a "jimjilbang" where you can go to different sauna rooms together. My two favorite were the salt room and the ice room.

On the way back home, make sure you have sufficient gasoline to make it through the mojave desert. Because there are only 2 gas stations. And if there is a wreck on the 2 lane highway, you may be stuck there for 4 hours, moving a total distance of 10 miles. And there may be ridiculous lines for gasoline and the bathroom, due to the unprecedented need of dozens of people.

Happy Vacationing!

Rhetorically,
Rebekah

And They Lived Happily

I got married!!! My reception and wedding was everything I dreamed of, thanks to the efforts of my mom, aunts, and other extended family members. 

My mom made my dress and sash:

My aunt Marilyn made my bouquet:

And numerous others helped decorate the mini cupcakes:

Not to mention all those who helped set up and take down decorations, clean up the chapel, etc. We were so blessed. 

THANK YOU ALL!!
Rebekah

Chronicles of Narnia: The Magician's Nephew

My fiancee and I have started reading the Chronicles of Narnia series together! It was one of my favorites growing up, and I often feel that most of the books are overlooked because everyone focuses on "the Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe." 

But for anyone with a sense of adventure and a desire to learn more about the background of Narnia, I would highly recommend "the Magician's Nephew."

Just as "the Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe" contains Christian symbolism (specifically, the atonement of Christ), "the Magician's Nephew" contains symbolism about the Creation. All of the books in the series have children as main characters, which I love because of their perspective, and I think C.S. Lewis nails the dialogue and personalities. It's been great to read aloud.

But you don't have to take my word for it!

Rhetorically,
Rebekah